Let's take a little inventory of what you have stashed away in that secret compartment in your closet.

Handcuffs ... Paddles ... Ticklers ... Whips ... Sexy Lingerie ... Costumes

I know this is not something that you talk about outside your circle of close friends, but let's imagine for a second, that it is. You could get over-the-coffee erotica conversation like "Girl, my man got his superman costume that he ordered and we worked it". Or "She liked the Superman. I think I'll get GI Joe next time." Every woman and man has a sexual fetish, whether they openly admit it or not. What are the most common? Feet fetish, balloon fetish, paddling fetish, leather fetish and some a bit disturbing to mention. In fact, you would be surprised who's hiding what in their closet.

A couple in a relationship has its sexual due dates - not fresh beyond this date. You know, when sex just becomes once a week instead of the twice a day routine at the start. We all know this happens even to the best of relationships. It is just a matter of time - six months, perhaps a year? Then what? This is when you need to let your imagination grow an arm ... and maybe an animal fur paddle to go with the arm.

Foreplay is a very important part of our sexual relationships. Don't forget to play. A couple who plays together stays together.